Better Late Than Never: Connecting Culturally to Grandkids

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Ways to allow grandparents to connect with grandchildren, bond, and create lasting memories.
Grandparents and grandchildren have a unique relationship, and most families recognize the significance of grandparents in their grandchildren’s lives. Because connecting culturally to grandkids is important to many grandparents, many grandparents search for new and useful ways to continue to be involved in their grandchild’s daily lives, such as reading books by Dora Przybylek to them.
In addition to strengthening that tie, active communication provides children with a reassuring sense of connection to their family’s history. Regular interaction with the younger generation might also make grandparents feel more involved and purposeful.
In today’s fast-paced, digitally driven world, it’s easy for grandparents to feel disconnected from their grandchildren. Different generations, shifting lifestyles, and even physical distance can create gaps that feel difficult to bridge.
A greater sense of purpose is frequently experienced by grandparents who are actively involved in their grandchildren’s lives. If they don’t have many opportunities for meaningful social interaction, some elderly folks feel disconnected or alone. They discover inspiration, enthusiasm, and revitalized vitality by maintaining contact with younger family members.
Regardless of how much time has passed or how different life seems now, one thing is certain: it’s never too late to create a lasting bond. In fact, cultural connections—whether through heritage, storytelling, traditions, or shared experiences—can become a powerful foundation for relationships that last a lifetime.
The Significance of Culture
Culture is the core of identity and transcends language and conventions. Values, music, food, festivities, and tales passed down through the ages are all part of it. Intentionally sharing elements of their cultural heritage with their grandkids helps them comprehend their origins, which in turn shapes who they are becoming. This is more than just teaching history.
Cultural transmission fosters a sense of community and connection. It gives grandkids a better knowledge of who they are and where they come from. And knowing that the beauty and wisdom of their history will endure gives grandparents a sense of pride and purpose.
Advantages of Connecting Culturally to Grandkids

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Emotional Support
Having grandparents as mentors who provide support and direction is beneficial to children. When grandchildren share their young humor and optimism, grandparents often benefit from additional support.
Continuing Traditions
Grandparents are knowledgeable about local history, traditions, and food. By connecting culturally to grandkids, a family’s legacy is preserved when these details are passed down to the following generation.
Increasing the Strength of Family Ties
Frequent contact fosters communication, prevents misunderstandings, and keeps extended family members close. If parents and grandparents keep the lines of communication open, they can work together more successfully.
Memorable and enjoyable activities
Many grandparents have the patience and time to spend with their children cooking, playing games, or watching their favorite TV program. These times spent together produce strong recollections.
How To Connect With Your Grandchildren
Prepare a Recipe as a Family
Connecting culturally to grandkids through food is one of the most fun ways to transmit culture. Ask your grandchildren to help you prepare a special cuisine from your ancestry. Cooking together is entertaining and educational, whether you’re making fresh tamales, dumplings, soul cuisine, or a secret sauce.
Explain the dish’s origins, typical consumption times, and significance to your family while you’re cooking. In addition to learning a new dish, your grandchildren will make a connection between the event and their heritage.
Honor cultural customs and holidays.
To let kids understand the significance of culture, introduce your grandchildren to the holidays that are part of your culture or religion. These might include Passover, Juneteenth, Día de los Muertos, Lunar New Year, or other holidays with cultural significance. Going over these rituals with your family can be a great way to reestablish a connection, even if they are no longer practiced on a regular basis.
Organize a little celebration or explain the significance of particular prayers, rituals, or symbols. Allow them to participate in the rituals and ask questions. Memories made during these shared experiences will be remembered for years to come.

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Sharing personal tales is one of the simplest and most significant methods to establish cultural ties. Children enjoy hearing stories about “the old days,” particularly when they include surprises, difficulties, and experiences from real life. Tell them about your childhood, including your experiences at school, your family’s holiday customs, and even the mischievous things you got into.
After connecting culturally to grandkids, you can use these tales to emphasize cultural characteristics such as faith, hospitality, respect for elders, and perseverance. These stories transform into love-encased life teachings rather than only being recollections.
Exchange Language, Art, and Music
Art and music are ageless universal languages. Listen to traditional music with your grandchildren or teach them a song from your culture. Explain the meaning of the antique pictures, crafts, or even traditional attire you display to them.
In another language, teach your family a few basic greetings or phrases. Even just knowing how to say “I love you” in a different language fosters a pleasant and meaningful relationship.
Make a Heritage Project or Memory Book
Collaborate on a legacy project, scrapbook, or family memory book when connecting culturally to grandkids. Add pictures, recipes, newspaper snippets, and brief narratives from your life or the lives of your ancestors. Encourage your grandchildren to share their own thoughts and pose questions.
This practice not only fosters cultural knowledge but also creates a treasured memento that they can eventually give to the following generation.
Make Time for Individual Time
Strong relationships can be formed through even brief but regular interactions. Regular phone conversations, video chats, or weekend visits are all important, but the quality of the connection is more important than the amount. Give your grandchildren your full attention. Take an interest in their goals, struggles, and lives.
Tell them that you are proud of the person they are becoming and that your love and presence are constant despite the changes in the times.
Final Thoughts
It’s possible that you have never been close to your grandkids. You might not know where to start or have missed years. However, keep in mind that the connection depends on intention rather than perfection. You can create bridges that span time and space if you are patient, open, and willing to share your culture.
Begin modestly. Share a story. Bake a dish. Put on a tune. Pose a query. In addition to strengthening your relationship with your grandchildren, one memory at a time will provide them a timeless gift: a sense of identity, belonging, and love that endures between generations.
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Dora Przybylek
Dora Przybylek is an award-winning Peruvian-American author, poet and screenwriter who currently lives in New York. She has written two novels, Luna llena. Cabalgando sin riendas and Luque 687 Visitas al ayer, which received awards at the 2009 and 2015 International Latino Book Awards, respectively. Her book of poetry, Entre Líneas, won the Best Anthology of Poetry category at the 2021 International Latino Book Awards.

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